Come Home to Who You Truly Are

Guided by The Mind Shifter-helping you return to your
truth, your strength, and your purpose.

At The Mind Shifter, we believe you don’t need to become someone new-you need to reconnect with who you’ve always been beneath the noise, expectations, and self-doubt.

As an NLP and Enneagram Certified Life Coach, Doreen Lee work with individuals who are ready to understand themselves more deeply and live with greater clarity and intention. Whether you’re feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or simply seeking something more meaningful, this is a space for honest reflection and real change.

Through self-love, awareness, and guided support, you will begin to see yourself differently-and from there, everything else starts to change.

Publications

No Mud, No Lotus

Growth begins where
discomfort meets courage.

No Mud, No Lotus is a heartfelt guide to self-love, healing, and personal transformation.

A heartfelt guide to self-love, healing, and personal transformation.

Inspired by the truth that growth often rises from life’s hardest moments, this book helps you reflect, reconnect, and rediscover your inner strength through the Garden Map—a pathway to blooming the lotus within, even from the mud you are in right now.

More than just a book, it includes gentle exercises, reflections, and practical prompts throughout the journey—so you won’t just read about healing, you’ll feel guided step by step as you grow.

If you feel lost, overwhelmed, or ready for deeper meaning, this book, by Doreen Lee is a gentle reminder:

There is nothing wrong with you.
There is only something waiting to be understood.

The Rare Bloom, Deeply Rooted

Bending, Growing and
Flowering in Body and Spirit.

We are often told that aging is a process of fading. Science and ancient wisdom tell a completely different story: it is a sacred initiation.

Scheduled for release in October/November 2026, The Rare Bloom, Deeply Rooted serves as the perfect, soulful follow-up to No Mud, No Lotus. This book bridges cutting-edge modern science—specifically the landmark Stanford University study on the massive biological shifts women experience around ages 44 and 60—with profound spiritual devotion.

Drawing rich inspiration from the resilient Lucky Bamboo—a sacred plant that builds hidden networks underground, bends beautifully in the fiercest winds, and produces a legendary, rare flower only once in its lifetime—this guide offers a practical, comforting roadmap for women navigating the ages of 35 to 60 and beyond.

Featuring expert clinical contributions and gentle, universal food remedies powered by a well-known TCM organisation, alongside Doreen Lee’s personal, curated daily practices—including The Morning Positivity Sky Ritual and The Nightly Self-Love Ritual—this book is designed to help you care for your mind, body, and soul.

You do not have to fear the passing of time. Your changing form is simply the line where your magnificent spirit is expanding.

No Perfect Parent, No Perfect Child

A gentle reflection on emotional presence, parenting and the quiet pressure many families carry unseen

Many parents spend years trying to become everything their children might need. They carry responsibilities, worries, expectations, emotional pressure, and the invisible fear of getting things wrong. Somewhere along the way, many quietly lose the ability to rest, soften, or simply be present inside ordinary moments.

No Perfect Parent, No Perfect Child is a compassionate exploration of emotional overwhelm, nervous systems, silent unhappiness, self-love, regret, healing, and the quiet ways families shape one another across time.

Written with warmth, honesty, and emotional insight, this book gently reminds readers that children do not need flawless parents. They need emotionally safe humans willing to keep learning, growing, repairing, and loving honestly through imperfect moments.

Through reflective stories, calming metaphors, practical observations, and gentle exercises, Doreen Lee invites readers to look beyond behavior and begin understanding the emotional world quietly living underneath it.

More than a parenting book, this is a book about emotional humanity, softness, and learning how to reconnect with ourselves and the people we love before life moves too quickly past us.

If you have ever wondered whether you were doing enough, carrying too much, or longing to become more emotionally present with the people you love, this book by Doreen Lee, was written for you.

Perfection was never the true measure of love. Presence was.

Services

Talks & Workshop

Our talks and workshops are designed to create awareness, spark reflection, and encourage meaningful conversations around self-love, mindset, and personal growth. Suitable for organisations, schools, and communities, these sessions are engaging, relatable, and grounded in real-life experiences.

Key Benefits:

Greater self-awareness and emotional understanding
Practical tools to manage stress and mindset
Improved communication and relationships
A more motivated and resilient mindset

One-to-one life coaching

Personalised coaching sessions tailored to your unique experiences, challenges, and goals. Through guided conversations and proven techniques from NLP and Enneagram frameworks, we help you uncover limiting beliefs and move forward with clarity

Key Benefits:

Clear direction and stronger decision-making
Increased confidence and self-trust
Ability to overcome mental and emotional blocks
A deeper sense of purpose and alignmen

Personality Assessment (Enneagram-Based)

Understand yourself on a deeper level through the Enneagram personality assessment. This tool provides insight into your core motivations, fears, and behavioural patterns, helping you make sense of how you think, feel, and respond.

Key Benefits:

Deeper self-awareness and personal insight
Improved relationships through better understanding of others
Identification of strengths and growth areas
More intentional personal and professional choices

Relationship Coaching

Whether it’s with your partner, family, or even yourself, relationships can be complex. Our coaching helps you navigate communication challenges, emotional triggers, and recurring patterns with greater clarity and understanding.

Key Benefits:

Healthier communication and conflict resolution
Stronger emotional connection and trust
Better understanding of relationship dynamics
Improved self-awareness within relationships

Testimonials

This is the best wellness workshop I’ve ever attended. It helped me understand my issues better and taught me how to manage stress effectively. Doreen truly understands and addresses the real challenges we face.

Achara Bangkok
The Enneagram session with Doreen was truly eye‑opening. I gained a deeper understanding of my personality and the patterns that shaped my behavior. Doreen guided me with clarity and compassion, helping me see both my strengths and the areas where I can grow. It was not only insightful but also empowering — I left feeling more self‑aware and motivated to embrace positive change.

Kelvin Thay Malaysia
Doreen's Confidence workshop was a turning point for our team. She created a safe space where everyone felt encouraged to speak up and share openly. The practical tools she introduced helped us build self‑assurance and communicate more effectively. I noticed a real shift in how my team approaches challenges — they are more proactive, collaborative, and confident in their decisions. Doreen’s guidance has had a lasting impact on both individual growth and team dynamics.

Jacinthea Corporate, SG
Doreen’s Enneagram workshop was an invaluable experience for our leadership team. By exploring the different personality types, our managers gained a deeper understanding of themselves and their colleagues. This has improved communication, reduced misunderstandings, and strengthened collaboration across departments. Doreen’s ability to explain complex concepts in a clear and engaging way made the session both practical and inspiring. It has given us tools to lead with greater empathy and effectiveness.

Sameer Corporate, SG
Attending Doreen’s Enneagram coaching as a couple was a transformative experience; it saved our marriage. We discovered how our different personality types influence the way we communicate, handle stress, and show love. We left feeling closer, more aligned and understood.

Jamie & Kyle SG
Doreen’s life coaching gave my daughter hope and confidence during a difficult time. With her gentle guidance, my daughter began opening up and finding strength again. I’m truly grateful for the positive change Doreen has brought into her life.

Anonymous SG

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